I had a feeling on the Monday that our girl would be making her way earth side very soon and started having surges early hours of Tuesday morning. I let Paul sleep because I knew I would need him soon so I just did my breathing and had some baths. Paul got the pool filled when he got up and the midwives came about 9am..by that point my surges were really close together and lasting a good length of time. I was comfiest on my bed and I was in ‘the zone’ with my breathing and music..they checked me and said my cervix was very thin but only 2cms so they went home because they wanted me to stay focused. Then things got really intense soon after them leaving so I got in the pool for a little relief and Paul got in to do some light touch massage and put pressure on my lower back for me. I was in there for about an hour in total. My waters broke while I was in the water. Paul called the midwives to let them know and they said they would make their way back over shortly. I then got out because I felt like I needed a poo…I was on the toilet for 5 mins and then put my had down to have a feel and suddenly felt her head coming. I shouted for Paul and we delivered her together squatted on the bathroom floor. The midwives arrived 15 mins later 😆❤
Arlo’s Birth Story
George’s birth story
The birth ended up being a very positive experience, although didn’t start as if it necessarily would be. I had be very restless and uncomfortable Saturday evening and wasn’t surprised when my waters broke in the middle of the night. However straight away I knew from the colour of the water that there was meconium, and that meant I had to go straight into hospital. I called Stoke and we were asked to make our way in. This was off ‘plan’ as we were hoping to enjoy the early stages at home followed by a midwife led water birth.
On arrival to hospital about 3am I wasn’t having contracts yet, just period like cramps. On examination it was confirmed that the waters had gone with meconium, and that my cervix was closed. We were told I would be induced via the hormone drip. Induction was something I was not keen on, and given the above was concerned I was in for a long birth. Despite this I did feel surprisingly calm at this point. I thank that to the positive induction stories we have recently heard in class. I was determined to remain relaxed and use the hypnobirthing I had been practicing the past months. Due to the meconium I was no longer allowed to birth on the midwife led unit and needed to wait a few hours to be moved into the labour ward. I made my peace with the fact the lovely water birth I had imagined was out the window!
The hormone drip was started around 8am. I put my eye mask on, started the relaxation breathing and other hypnobirthing tools. Hubby grabbed a beanbag and had a very important 40 winks at this point.
Unfortunately baby needed constant monitoring and with being attached to the drip also, I wasn’t really able to get into the labour positions I had hoped for. I did request a wireless monitor but it kept needing to be adjusted so it ended up being easier to stay put on the birthing bed.
By late morning I got my Tens machine on as the surges were ramping up. I concentrated on breathing through them. What amazed me throughout was that during the rests periods between surges I felt almost euphoric. I’m not sure if the exact timings however from my first early afternoon examination I was 4cm. Shortly after this though I had strong urges to push, in fact my body was just doing it at the peak of each surge. 45 mins after the first examination I was checked again and was fully dilated. I burst into tears with relief that I could really start pushing as I already knew my body was ready. One hour later gorgeous baby George arrived with us. It was incredible, I felt completely in control, thanks to the breathing and visualization techniques. The tens machine was amazing, and I had no desire for any other pain relief, I had it on from the very beginning to end! Top tip during the pushing stage is have your birth partner to press the boost button during a surge.
I cannot praise the hypnobirthing and the yoga classes enough as they gave me the tools to have such a positive experience, despite there being a few hiccups. I found during my birth I was thinking about other inspirational stories that I’d heard.
Hypnobirthing is designed to help women and their birth partners have a calmer, easier birth experience using relaxation techniques, breathing techniques, visualisation and fear release techniques. Hypnobirthing can help the birth experience in many ways. As a Hypnobirthing Practitioner and the founder of Together Birthing, I regularly hear feedback from mums on how hypnobirthing has helped their birth experiences.
1. Many women talk about hypnobirthing helping them to stay in control:
“I felt much more in control and felt I had the tools to call upon when it got intense.”
“I felt in control and calm the whole time.”
“Hypnobirthing enabled me to cope and remain in control.”
2. Other women talk about how the hypnobirthing techniques enabled them to cope more easily with the sensation of the surges/contractions:-
“I did not have any type of pain relief at all and the sensations I had were completely bearable.”
“The breathing literally took the pain away like an anaesthetic would, I was surprised how powerful it was.”
“I managed the birth without pain relief. Concentrating on my breath gave me something to concentrate on which helped keep me calm.”
“The breathing exercises were my anchor, and in the end I delivered with no pain relief.”
3. Hypnobirthing also helps women to cope if special circumstances arise:-
“Due to my waters breaking early I had to be induced, which is not what I would have liked…however Hypnobirthing really helped me to remain positive, relaxed and open minded. The breathing for me was invaluable during labour, the techniques enabled my body to go with the surges rather than fight them.”
“My anxiety spiked a bit right at the end because the room was filled with midwives, nurses and doctors and they were telling me my baby was in distress but I was able to block them out to an extent and just went with what my body told me to do. Apart from swallowing a bit of meconium and being slightly jaundiced my baby was fine. Everyone now comments on how calm and content he is.”
4. Hypnobirthing involves techniques to release fear from past experiences or from imagined experiences caused by hearing traumatic birth stories or watching painful birth experiences on TV. This enables women to fully relax during labour and prevents any panic or fear being triggered:-
“The course helped me overcome my fear of birth which was held from an early age and gave me the tools and techniques to deal with the most unknown experience in a more calm and educated way.”
5. Couples tell me how connected they felt doing hypnobirthing, due to the important role given to the birth partner:-
“It was inclusive for my partner and we felt informed and worked together as a team throughout the birthing process. I was very proud of him and how calm he also remained.”
“Being calm and focused throughout the whole birth with the help of my husband made it an amazing and special experience for all of us”.
“The hypnobirthing course is also great as the birthing partner is so involved and my husband got a lot out of the course and helped me immensely through the birth to keep me calm and relaxed and he communicated with midwives so I could focus on my breathing.”
“My husband was really great, he stayed in control and calm, did the soft touch massage and was generally very soothing.”
6. Finally, women tell me that hypnobirthing helps them feel confident and empowered and it gives them vital techniques and knowledge about how the body and mind work together:-
“I cannot emphasise enough the empowerment, confidence, vital knowledge and coping tools that I gained from Hypnobirthing.”
Hypnobirthing courses are usually around 8 to 10 hours in total taught as a weekly class for 4 weeks. You learn all the relaxation, breathing, fear release and visualisation techniques that you need as well knowledge about how the body functions and the role of the birth partner. You have relaxation downloads to listen to and practice at home so that you feel fully prepared when it comes to your birthing day.
Emma Harwood-Jones, Hypnobirthing Practitioner, Together Birthing
Also known as a straightforward birth, or to midwives as a normal birth, a natural birth can mean slightly different things. Some see the main criteria as being a vaginal birth, while the most widely used definition is a vaginal birth using no pain relief or intervention (although using gas and air generally still constitutes having a natural birth).
Natural birth is generally considered to be one with no intervention at all, using neither induction in the early stages, nor forceps during delivery, or an injection to deliver the placenta in the third stage of birth. The things that almost certainly never fall under the remit of a natural birth are: epidural, episiotomy, caesarean or general anaesthetic.
The term ‘natural childbirth’ was coined by obstetrician Grantly Dick-Read in his ground-breaking 1930s book of the same name Natural Childbirth. The concept of birthing in a natural way has grown in validity over the years to become a common objective for many families. As birthing intervention, medication and hospital-based births have become more prevalent over time, many have felt that natural births are empowering and a way of staying in control of your body as well as being more connected to your baby when it arrives.
Natural births can be achieved in hospital, at home, during water births and breech deliveries. In place of anaesthetics and other medical assistance there are some tried and tested coping techniques that assist in calm and healthy births, mainly using mind-body connections. They include massage, water birth, mindfulness techniques, breathing exercises and self-hypnosis. Movement techniques and support from loved ones or and/or midwives during birth are also important.
Having a natural birth can be important to women and their families due to a number of reasons, including religious and personal beliefs, a fear of medication or hospital settings, a previous bad experience with birth intervention or a desire to feel in control of the birth. Even if someone has previously had a caesarean, they can opt for a natural vaginal birth in subsequent deliveries.
Early labour and your birthing partner
When you first go into labour it’s important to do things that will keep you feeling calm and self-assured. Even if you’re planning on going into hospital, you should try to stay at home as long as you can in a setting that comforts you. You could walk around the garden, take a bath, have a nap in between contractions, or do something that you enjoy until contractions become regular. This is usually when they last 30-60 seconds and occur every five minutes, but your midwife will advise you.
Throughout labour, it’s also key to have emotional support from someone who is calm and that you know and trust. This could be your partner, your mum, best friend or a midwife – the choice is yours and you should get them involved in your birthing plans in order for them to help you to remain focused and speak to medical professionals about your choices. This leaves you to focus on things like breathing techniques, getting in the right mindset and being as comfortable as possible.
Let your hormones do the work
Hormones act just as strongly in labour as they do in pregnancy, and knowing how to promote positive childbirth hormones lets things work as they should. During labour your body produces oxytocin, a hormone that makes the uterus contract strongly and regularly. Remaining upright helps with the production of oxytocin but feeling afraid, anxious, embarrassed or angry can inhibit it, so learning how to deal with these feelings helps the birth along hugely. We explain how you can do this below.
Likewise, endorphins – which are hormones that provide a sense of well-being – are nature’s own pain relievers, helping you to cope with contractions. If you can learn to let go and allow your hormones to work for you then your body will function at its best. There are a number of techniques that can help with this and afford a sense of calm and empowerment to having a natural birth.
All in the techniques
There are multiple techniques available for allowing a natural, painless birth that you can use on their own or in combination.
Changing position regularly and keeping moving is a recognised method for encouraging straightforward, natural birth. It helps your baby to move into the correct position for birth and through the birth canal, as well as helping you deal with contractions. This can be achieved through walking around between contractions, showering (which can also help cool you down), rocking and swaying the hips, going up and down stairs or using a birthing ball to remain mobile and keep your torso upright. These all contrast with the traditional lithotomy position where a woman is in a hospital bed on her back with legs in stirrups, which has consistently been shown to slow and complicate labour.
2. Water birth
The soothing power of water has multiple benefits. It acts as a form of pain relief, helps to support your weight – particularly good if you’re getting back pain – and allows you to move more freely during the birth. Birthing in water is definitely a more natural method. You can either just labour in the birthing pool or also birth in there as well, which has the added bonus of reducing the risk of perineal tearing, due to increased blood flow and allowing a more relaxed birth. It is also a comforting transition from the womb, for the baby to be born in water.
An approach that encompasses many of the natural birth techniques is hypnobirthing. A form of self-hypnosis, it teaches mums-to-be to use deep relaxation, breathing, visualisation and fear release techniques during labour. Similar to meditation, it’s one of the best ways of avoiding anxiety and allowing your hormones to work effectively in relieving pain and allowing your uterus to contract. Part of an approach known as family-centred care, with hypnobirthing there’s an emphasis on the active role of the birthing partner. Couples learn the techniques together and the approach sees the birth as a bonding experience.
Hypnobirthing is versatile – even if it turns out you can’t have a natural birth due to complications, you can still use the techniques to have a calm delivery. Procedures like having a caesarean or epidural can be distressing, but focusing your mind by using self-hypnosis distracts from them and allows you to focus on a positive birth. The skills learnt can also be used after birth to ward off stress and anxiety in everyday life.
Massage in the early stages of labour has been shown to help the release of all-important endorphins and reduce anxiety. If you’re feeling frightened, the touch of someone you’re close to can also reassure you. Being gently massaged during contractions may act as a welcome distraction to help you cope with the pain, although it’s important to communicate with your partner and ask them to stop if the massage is uncomfortable or not helping. A good area to focus on is the back and shoulders, and your birthing partner can create a rhythm with the massage strokes to promote beneficial breathing rates. Gentler foot or hand massaging also provides comforting closeness.
5. Warm and cold compresses
Using hot and cold compresses during labour can be an effective form of pain relief. Hot packs do so by increasing the blood flow to an area, while cold packs decrease the blood flow. Placing a hot pack at the base of your tummy helps minimise cramping, in the way you might use a hot water bottle on period pains. Hot packs can also be relaxing when placed at the back of the neck. Cold packs can relieve back pain when placed at the bottom of the spine.
Even if you’ve previously had a caesarean, you could still have a natural birth the second time around and thereafter, depending on certain factors. In fact, vaginal birth after C-section (commonly referred to as VBAC) can be achieved in 60-80% of cases.
It may be that you missed out on a natural birth first time round and want to try again. Other reasons to go natural after a C-section are a shorter recovery time, more involvement in the birth or because you want a large family and to avoid multiple caesareans. You should of course listen to your doctor’s advice on whether VBAC is right for you, as some ladies with a high-risk uterine scar or a large baby won’t be able to have a natural birth after caesarean.
If you find out your baby is breech you may think it will put pay to your plan of having a natural birth. However, studies show that hypnotherapy is very effective in turning a breech baby. Even if you haven’t been to any hypnobirthing classes yet, there are specialists who can address specific issues, teach fear release techniques and promote visualising the baby turning, which actually really works.
If you’re considering a natural birth but still have concerns about what could go wrong, birthing centres in hospitals, such as midwife led units, are a good middle ground between a home birth and delivery ward. Here mums who’ve been assessed as having a low-risk birth can go to labour naturally if they wish. But, medical intervention is close at hand if needed, which is good to know if something doesn’t go according to plan and you need to be flexible with your birthing choices.
There are many reasons why you might need to have a cesarean section, either emergency c-section or planned. For some, a planned cesarean might be a welcomed relief after a traumatic pervious birth experience. For others, a planned or emergency cesarean might be disappointing after pinning hopes on a natural birth. Either way, hypnobirthing can make surgical birth much more enjoyable, through relaxation techniques enabling you to stay calm and helping you to connect with your baby.
Hypnobirthing will make the experience the best it can be by empowering you to make personal requests such as asking the medical team if you can play your relaxation music during the birth. You have the choice to ask for the drape to be lowered if you want to see your baby being born and you can even ask to receive your baby, if you are able to. Otherwise, you could also ask for your baby to be held on your chest straight away. This way, you can immediately bond with your baby and even start breastfeeding instead of your baby being whisked away and the cord cut. Another option is to ask for the cord clamping to be delayed until the cord has stopped pulsating which will allow the baby to receive all the blood volume and oxygen that he/she needs. The most amazing moment for me, when my first baby was born by emergency cesarean, was when he was held close to me just after he was born and his eyes met mine for the first time. I will never forget that wonderful moment.
cesarean-birthThe cesarean itself, however, could have been much better if I had known some hypnobirthing techniques to help me through it. My whole body was shaking even though I couldn’t feel anything from the neck downwards. If I had done some relaxation techniques, I believe I could have calmed my body down which in turn may have helped to calm my baby down (he came out screaming).I learnt hypnobirthing for my second baby’s birth when I was lucky enough to be able to have a calm, natural vaginal birth. I was so elated by my experience that I decided to train to become a hypnobirthing practitioner. I have now taught many couples over the past couple of years, including women with planned c-sections and some who ended up having to have an emergency c-sections. They were able to use breathing and visualisation techniques to stay calm and relaxed and generally just much more positive about the experience. Through relaxation techniques you are then able to release the all important endorphins which help you to feel good, relaxed and they also, importantly, get past on to your baby through the umbilical cord.
Good preparation is the key to a good outcome. If you regularly visualise the cesarean birth going well in your mind whilst deeply relaxed using breathing techniques, you can create positive patterns/memories in the brain, so that when it comes to your operation, positive feelings will be triggered. You can also practice visualising a safe place (a special place in nature, somewhere at home, or even under your duvet!), which you can then imagine during the operation. These calm, confident and safe feelings will allow you to remain relaxed enough to produce endorphins, giving you and your baby a much more enjoyable experience.
If you are feeling particularly nervous about a planned cesarean or if you are fearful about the possibility of having an emergency cesarean, then seek out your local hypnobirthing pratitioner to do some fear release work with you. If you are in labour and have been told that you will need to have a c-section, you can use some calm breathing techniques to help keep you calm. This technique is also useful for getting into a deep relaxed state when practicing visualisations. The key to the technique is to slow your breathing down and to make sure the exhalation is longer than the inhalation. Breathe in and out through your nose, focusing the breath at the back of your throat like a silent hum. Count in for 3 and out for 6 or in for 4 and out for 8 whichever works best for you. You might prefer to breath in a relaxing colour like a soft green or blue and then breathe out tension like black or grey. As you breathe out, think about relaxing all the different parts of your body from the top of your head all the way down to your toes. This breathing technique will give you a feeling of control over your body, which will help you to feel calm and confident. Remember, you can visualisae your safe place at any time to add to your relaxation.
Once your baby is born the sooner you can do some skin-to-skin bonding, the better. A beautiful way to watch nature in play is to put your baby on your abdomen and watch him/her birth crawl up to your breast. It’s a truly wonderful experience, which makes your birth feel more natural.
Hypnobirhting can really help make your cesarean birth your own personal birth experience. Discuss with your care providers to let them know what you would like, to make sure it’s a positive fear-free experience for you and your baby.
In a nutshell the labour was really quick, I started feeling some contractions around 12/1 in the afternoon and they were soon 2-3 mins apart and lasting 30-40 seconds so I called the midwife. She came and did an internal examination on me and said at about 3pm that I was only 2cm dilated so left and told me to call back when the contractions got more intense. Iain got home at 4pm and started filling the birthing pool. In the mean time my surges were getting stronger but I kept breathing through them. At about 5pm the surges were constant and at that point my waters broke and Iain took me upstairs to the birthing pool and called the midwives to come out.
The water was a bit too hot so I just stood in the pool until Iain could put enough cold water to cool it enough for me and as soon as it was I sat down in it and immediately felt my body start to push the baby out. I must admit I didn’t do the J breathing as my body was doing all the work and literally pushed the baby out for me. The baby’s head came out before the midwives arrived and then my body did one more surge and her body came out just as the midwives came in (at 5.30pm). Amazingly the baby coming out didn’t hurt at all, the surges themselves were more painful. The midwives put the baby on my chest for some skin on skin and then the placenta was delivered naturally 20 mins later. I didn’t tear at all so didn’t need any stitches and I put that down to doing the perineal massage daily. Throughout the whole labour I was calm and in control. I wouldn’t say that it was a painless experience because it did get intense at some points but I did not have any type of pain relief at all and the sensations I had were completely bearable. Iain was also really great, he stayed in control and calm, did the soft touch massage and was generally very soothing.
I put my amazing birth experience down to the hypnobirthing lessons and doing the rainbow relaxation and birthing affirmations (almost) daily, so thank you for teaching Iain and I the skills we needed to make that happen.
We gave birth on Thursday at home using Hypnobirthing and labour lasted 2.5hrs. It was the most incredible experience.
My fiancé religiously listened to the birthing affirmations and we constantly practiced our deepening relaxations in the build up to the due date and when the time came we were well prepared with the birthing pool all set up and confidence in our practice and belief that a drug free, comfortable birth would happen. It did.
Within 2 hours Penny had fully dilated without any unbearable pain. Pure breathing techniques and a birthing ball. I gave a lot of soft touch massage, played ambient music and spoke soothingly to my amazing partner with confident words about the birth of our beautiful child.
By the time I managed to get the pool at optimum heat Penny’s surges where constant and I knew it was happening. She got fully into the birthing pool and before the midwives had even reached the front door, the head had popped out. I knew it was down to me to birth my child and as the rest of the body was coming out, the midwives arrived and I called out in relief that they had arrived ( it was 2.30 hrs at this stage – very fast for what I’m lead to believe) they unwrapped the umbilical cord that was around her neck and handed our beautiful daughter to Penny
Penny didn’t tear at all and has not only recovered but she is pretty much back to normal within 48hrs and we are blissfully happy.
Without Hypnobirthing, we know that this experience wouldn’t have been as magical as it was and fully believe in the power of a positive mind and belief in oneself can accomplish unbelievable feats.
So how effective is hypnobirthing at ensuring a manageable birth experience? As many as 69% of my hypnobirthing mums did not require any pain relief during birth. Based on my own client’s feedback, only 31% required some form of pain relief (including gas and air) and these were mostly due to special circumstances, but they reported to still finding hypnobirthing beneficial for helping to cope with the situation and remain calm and involved in the decision making process. Even if intervention was needed for special circumstances, hypnobirthing still helped women and their birth companions cope with their experience, empowering them to ask questions and stay calm so that they felt fully informed and positive about the birth.
“Although my birthing experience was not how I had planned it, hypnobirthing enabled me to cope and remain in control.” Kate, Berkhamsted.
In terms of epidurals, according to an American study in 2007, among the women who had vaginal births, 5 (10%) of the hypnosis prepared and 23 (45%) of those not using hypnosis had epidural anaesthesia (Source: VandeVusse, Irland, Franciscan, Berner, Fuller, Adams – Hypnosis for Childbirth: A Retrospective Comparative Analysis of Outcomes in One Obstetrician’s Practice http://www.asch.net/portals/0/journallibrary/articles/ajch-50/50-2/vandevusse50-2.pdf ). These figures help to show us that although hypnobirthing cannot promise the perfect birth, it does give women the best opportunity for a drug-free birth as the need for pain relief greatly reduces.
Statistics also show us that women are less likely to have an emergency c-section with hypnobirthing than without. The Royal Wolverhampton Hospitals NHS Trust has done a study into the benefits of hypnobirthing, which showed that only 4% of hypnobirthing births ended with an emergency C-section compared with 15% for the general population. As part of the Cochrane review published in 2012, three studies of 645 women found that more women in hypnosis groups had a spontaneous vaginal birth than those in the control group. The largest of the studies (numbering 520 women) reported a lower rate of caesarean section in the hypnosis group. (source: The Cochrane library http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/14651858.CD009356.pub2/abstract)
Harmon, Hynan and Tyre reported more spontaneous deliveries, higher Agpar scores (so better health of babies at birth) and reduced medication use in their study of 60 women. Of the 45 Hypnosis for Childbirth clients, 38 delivered without the use of caesarean, forceps or vacuum, a rate of spontaneous birth of 84%. This is a higher than average rate of normal birth for the general population of first time mothers. (Source: Harmon TM, Hynan MT, Tyre TE. Improved obstetric outcomes using hypnotic analgesia and skill mastery combined with childbirth education. Consultant Clinical psychology 1990)
Studies have also shown that hypnobirthing can shorten labour – Jenkins and Pritchard found a reduction of 3 hours for first-time mums from an average of 9.3 hours to 6.4 hours and and 1 hour for second-time (or subsequent) mums from 6.2 hours to 5.3 hours for active labour (262 subjects and 600 controls). The birthing phase was statistically shorter for first time mothers, from 50 min to 37 min (source: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/8476826)
The biggest study into hypnobirthing in the UK to date, was a randomised trial of 680 pregnant women in the UK in 2010 to 21012, known as the SHIP trial which reported that self-hypnosis made no difference to the method of birth (normal, instrumental or caesarean) or to the use of pain-relieving drugs between the self-hypnosis group and the control group, though the hypnosis group did report a reduction in anxiety about birth.
So how does hypnobirthing work? Hypnobirthing provides mums-to-be with breathing, visualisation, self-hypnosis, neuro-linguistic programming and fear release techniques, which aid any anxieties and negative thoughts about birth at a subconscious level.
Hypnobirthing enables mums to go into themselves during childbirth. The neo-cortex, the thinking part of the brain, is subdued through hypnosis, in order for labour to progress effectively using the reptilian part of the brain. Hypnobirthing techniques enable mums-to-be to have a fear-free birth, one with a positive expectancy, which allows their bodies and minds to be in a relaxed state during childbirth, shutting down the neo-cortex and releasing the hormones that the body needs for an efficient and more comfortable birthing experience.
With hypnosis, oxytocin and endorphins flow and create a calm state of body and mind. Oxytocin causes the muscles to surge, opening the cervix at optimum efficiency. Endorphins act as the body’s natural tranquiliser, and are said to be 200 times more powerful than morphine.
Hypnosis is really just a state of relaxation where we choose to focus our attention inwards and become more suggestible (to positive statements about birth for example) and we remain fully in control and aware of what is happening around us. It is a completely natural phenomenon which we experience every day of our lives, when we daydream or become engrossed in a good book or film.
Despite the UK SHIP trial we can still see from other research that hypnobirthing does help to reduce the need for pain relieving drugs during childbirth with 10% of hypnobirhting mothers requiring epidurals compared with 45% of the non-hypnosis group (VandeVusse, Irland, Franciscan, Berner, Fuller, Adams) and only 31% of hypnobirthing mums requiring some form of pain relief or medication based on feedback from my hypnobirthing mums (and vast majority were due to special circumstances). Hypnobirthing has also been shown to reduce the risk of emergency c-section with only 4% of hypnobirthing births ending with an emergency C-section compared with 15% for the general population according to a study by The Royal Wolverhampton Hospitals NHS Trust and according to a study by Jenkins and Pritchard, hypnobirthing can also help to shortern labour by as much as 3 hours for first time mums and 1 hour for second (and subsequent) mums. We have also seen better health of hypnobirthing babies and higher than average rate of normal births (Harmon, Hynan and Tyre). It is no wander that The Royal Wolverhampton Hospitals NHS Trust has seen a threefold increase in the number of women taking hypnobirthing classes in the past five years and Colchester Hospital NHS Foundation Trust has seen a fourteen-fold increase in couples taking hypnobirthing classes from 6 per month to 84 per month in the past four years!
My experience of hypnobirthing enabled me to feel calm and relaxed during labour and birth. The birth of eldest daughter, Jemima, was fairly traumatic so as the birth of my son drew nearer, I began to feel increasingly anxious. Last time, I had felt frightened and unprepared for the pain as my labour progressed; this time, I wanted to feel as calm and relaxed as possible.
Several friends recommended hypnobirthing to me. The more I found out about it, the more interested I became and, with just two weeks until my due date, my husband and I booked onto a hypnobirthing course with Emma Harwood-Jones. She taught us breathing techniques for each stage of labour: calm breathing, surge (contraction) breathing & birth breathing. She also did a fear release hypnosis on me to dispel any fears I had about giving birth and to help me feel relaxed about the labour. I read the book Hypnobirthing by Marie Mongan and also listened to the recommended hypnobirthing tracks every night. A key part of hypnobirthing is the use of positive affirmations and language: ‘pain’ or ‘hurt’ are not referred to and contractions are known as ‘surges ‘.
In the run up to the labour, I definitely felt a lot more relaxed than before and found myself feeling positive about, and even looking forward to, the whole experience of labour and birth.
My due date was 18th February but our little boy did not want to come out! I tried all sorts of natural induction techniques (reflexology, acupuncture and spicy food to name a few) but nothing worked and, on 1st March, I went into hospital to be induced.
The birth was extremely quick in the end; less than 6 hours from start to finish. Once the surges started, I remembered to do the surge breathing, which helped me to cope, especially as they got more intense. My husband was fantastic and kept reminding me of the various techniques we had learned. We walked all around the hospital in order to speed up the labour. After about 4 hours, my surges were coming every minute and a half, lasting for 30-40 seconds. My husband was keen for me to be examined as they were so close together, but I didn’t think they were lasting long enough for me to be too far along. However, we were taken to the birth centre and I was given the good news that I was already 8cm dilated. I wanted to try gas & air at this point, but found that it did not help me at all. The surges started to get very powerful and intense, and I have to say that I was definitely aware of the pain! My waters broke and baby Joshua was born 30 minutes later. I did not have much chance to use the birth breathing techniques as, by that stage, everyone was shouting at me to push!
Overall, I would recommend hypnobirthing classes to anyone feeling at all anxious about giving birth. My experience of hypnobirthing instilled in me a sense of calmness about the birth and I am sure that it helped me to relax as the labour progressed. I think that the breathing element of hypnobirthing really helped me to cope with the surges, particularly in the earlier stages of labour and I am delighted that I was able to experience a drug free and uncomplicated natural birth.
Areas we cover
It is easy to get to our classes from London and Bedfordshire towns: Dunstable, Leighton Buzzard and Luton. There are also travel links from Buckinghamshire, from Amersham, Aylesbury, Chesham and Wendover.